There are many different types of sex buddies, some hardcore as you can see right here. I think you already know this. There are, of course, fair-weather friends. These are pieces of shit that are great to hang out with when you have a lot of money and things are going well in your life. However, the moment hard times come and you need to borrow a few bucks here and there, or you need to crash at somebody’s couch, these motherfuckers are long gone. These are completely worthless and you need to avoid these motherfuckers like the plague.
Another type of friend is a friend till the end. The problem with this friend is that he or she is very few and far between. In fact, in any given lifetime you probably would only develop this type of friend maybe once or twice and it really is sad because a lot of guys that try to develop the third kind of friend, screw up this second type of friendship. I am, of course, talking about the fuck buddy or fuck friend.
It’s easy to see why so many guys are excited about developing this type of friendship. Can you imagine having a great time with somebody and sharing all sorts of secrets and being completely comfortable around this person, and at the end of the day having physical fun with that person? It seems like it’s a great mix of both emotional, spiritual, intellectual, mental intimacy with good ol’ fashioned physical intimacy.
Now, don’t get me wrong. If you connect with somebody on a deep emotional level, sex is taken to a whole other level. If you think you can make a woman orgasm back to back just based on your raw physical appeal, stamina, and sexual technique, if you add a high level of emotional intimacy and emotional honesty and urgency into the mix, this can make her orgasms and your own climax completely out of this world.
You have to remember that for thousands of years, all sorts of mystics, poets, and dreamers have come up with tons of literature regarding the connection between physical sex and spirituality. This is not an accident. There is a tremendous amount of hyperemotional and quasi-spiritual components to sex.
It is a sad fact of life that most guys have sex purely for physical reasons. That really is too bad. That’s like eating caviar every single day just because you’re hungry. You don’t get to appreciate the fine points of caviar. You don’t get to discover for yourself on a very deep level why caviar is so expensive. You just look at it as simple food.
Sadly, people who focus on developing fuck friends end up trying to turn their real friends, these are life-long friends, into fuck buddies. This is a sure recipe for disaster because you need to keep your real friends real friends. Don’t overcomplicate it by adding a physical element. This is just going to blow up in your face.